Marshmallow Guns

It is a constant struggle to convince Soren that shooting people, toys, anything is not cool.  We are not gun people. We do not own guns. We do not allow the kids to have toy guns. We try to not allow them any tv with guns in it. We do not hunt. Seriously, guns are not a part of our lives. Yet somehow, our 4 year old has a way to turn everything into a gun!  Pens, toys, sticks, fingers…seriously, anything. I recognize that I cannot fight his urge to shoot things (afterall, we are self-proclaimed redneck wannabes). So instead, we have made it a rule that the only thing he is allowed to shoot out of these “guns” are rainbows and marshmallows.  Well, Soren took this a little literally, because he has been asking for a marshmallow gun. And because Kevin is a really cool father, he made him some!

A Posed Picture

So after two years of failed attempts, I finally got the kids to pose for a picture. Of course, they had to be wearing this…

Now let me explain…

we are currently in the process of transforming one of the chicken coops into a play house. This means that we have a lot of painting to do.  Lately, if any of the kids’ clothes are stained or ruined, I fight my impulse to hoard them and throw them away. Therefore, they were left with no paint clothes.  So I raided my closet for something to wear.  They ended up in a couple of old tank tops, their own underpants, and my gym socks over their shoes.  They look like the cutest little girls you’ve ever seen!

Six Years of Wedded Bliss

In a way it seems like a lifetime ago.  In a way it seems like yesterday.  But the calendar tells us that it really was 6 years ago.

Here’s a look back at the vows spoken that faithful day 6 years ago…

June 25, 2005

I promise to always remember how new love feels and rekindle the spark that first brought us together.

I promise to keep the fun and excitement of youth both in myself and in our relationship.

I promise that you will always be my closest friend and the person that I confide in.

I promise to cherish the relationships we have built and will continue to grow and develop new relationships.

I promise to understand that we are two separate people and will appreciate and support you as an individual.

I will cherish you for the perspective that you bring to the relationship and I will try to understand it and use it to make our relationship stronger.

I promise that family will always come first no matter how challenging life becomes.

I promise that together we will work to keep our families close and be there for support in any situation.

I understand that our life together will not always be easy but I promise to preserver and standby you.

I promise to make the necessary sacrifices to build both myself and our union to be prosperous and happy.

I promise no matter what the future, we will together make it our dreams.

 

I look forward to the many years we have together to watch myself and our relationship mature and develop into a lifetime of memories.

I promise to support you throughout life as an individual, as a friend, as a family member, and as a partner.

Happy 6th Anniversary Kevy! 

(And if you really want to see the details of the ceremony…Click here)

Thank You Target Clearance

While every day should be Thank You Target Clearance Day at our house. Last weekend we had an especially thankful Target Clearance Day!…

The Making of a Card

The boys were very excited to make a card for Daddy for father’s day. I however was not as excited at the prospect of cleaning up a mess after an art project. So we just did the same as we do for all meals, headed outside!

The Birds and the Bees

Soren is very into science these days. He loves hearing about how everything works and he is very interested, specifically, in anatomy and physiology of all animals.  Lately, he has been asking about reproduction.  We try to keep it as scientific as possible.  We talk about mammals versus reptiles. He knows about pollination.  He knows that babies need a “seed” and an egg and that women are born with eggs in their bellies.  He asks lots of really good questions, and again, I try to give him the most straight forward and accurate answer possible.  It wasn’t until the other day that Soren asked the dreaded question of how the “seed” got into the mommy’s belly where the egg lies.  So I swallowed hard, thought for a brief moment, and gave him the most scientific answer I could come up with for a 4 year old…”Magic” 

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Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day to the best father on Earth!